Stop Settling for Fixer Uppers Who Aren’t Worth a Pretty Penny.

The dirty fucking truth about people is: it doesn’t matter how much you love them, care for them, or believe in them. If they don’t want to invest in themselves, and grow as an individual, nothing you do is going to fix them. They’re feral animals and even if you get them fixed, they’re still…

Nice Guys or Faux Guys?

The men with the sweetest personality always have the most bitter motives, and it’s vile. I’d rather deal with a blatant asshole, than the stress from a faux nice guy. Men wonder why women typically go for the men who are assholes. They’re honest with who they are, and their intentions. At the very least…

Situationships Are Trash & You Can’t Change My Fucking Mind.

Your body is a temple;  People need to earn the right to;  worship you the way you deserve I preach about this motto to all my girlfriends on a daily basis. I have a fucking Post-It reminder taped to my mirror in my bedroom. I stare at that stupid yellow piece of paper every fucking…

Dating?

I’ve made a lot of progress with my self improvement, my attachment to other people, and my overall well being. Will I start dating again? Probably not. I love my freedom and I love living my life exactly how I want. I love where I’m at in life. Of course, there’s always room to improve…

Growth is Gonna Fucking Hurt You; That’s the Point.

The dirty truth is,  I have to do what’s  best for me & my  growth.  And what’s best for  me is to not fall into a  situationship trap with  someone I know there’s  no future with. Someone who I care  about deeply, who I’ll  grow feelings for & end  up hurting myself by my  own…